Tantric Bodywork & Somatic Sexology, Integrative Psychotherapy & Nervous System Regulation Work, Conscious Sexuality & Embodiment Mentorship
Melbourne & Gold Coast
Discover the Path to True Intimacy, Reclaim Your Erotic Aliveness, and Embody the Confidence and Presence of Your Truest Self
Tantra Melbourne & Gold Coast
Tantric Bodywork, Intimacy Coaching & Integrative Psychotherapy
Chrysalis Tantra is a space that invites you to slow down and reconnect with yourself and your body in full presence, opening the door to experiencing your sexuality and your life with expanded pleasure, confidence, deep connection with yourself and others, and joyful freedom.
Sexual energy is the energy of creation, and your relationship with sexuality is inevitably connected to all areas of your life. For many, however, this realm has become intertwined with shame, conditioning, trauma, or other layers that might inhibit the full expression of this powerful force. The good news is that there is a way to move through what may have been holding you back and open new possibilities for a more connected, blissful, and deeply fulfilling relationship with your body and with life itself.
This path is not about becoming someone else, but returning to what is already within you: your unique essence, your orgasmicness, and your innate, natural capacity for connection, love, and joy.
Somatic, Nervous System & Neuroscience-Based Approach
About Rita Anayê
Architect of Coherence
Rita’s work is based on loving presence, non-judgment, and devotion. She acknowledges the importance of safety, trust & sharing from an embodied place as the foundation for this path.
She is a teacher, psychotherapist, tantric bodyworker, energy worker, and intimacy coach with a focus on sexuality, sexual healing, and embodiment mentorship. Her expertise lies in supporting and guiding clients through:
Moving from the mind into the body, opening the path to true presence, sensations, and connection — both in and beyond the bedroom
Reawakening and embodying elevated and diverse states of pleasure & orgasmicness
Conscious relating with self and others
Working through trauma and releasing emotional blocks and conditioning that might be impacting your ability to be present and feel safe (nervous system connection)
Guiding understanding and working through sexual difficulties, especially erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, incapacity to orgasm, and numbness
Working through porn dependency and addictive patterns
Supporting couples in deepening intimacy, exploring erotic compatibility, and strengthening connection.
Her therapeutic approach is holistic, coherent, and integrative, combining tantra, somatic work, psychotherapy, coaching, and shamanic practices. Her work is grounded in a strong trauma-informed foundation and integrated with neuroscience, with a deep understanding of the brain-body connection through a somatic, nervous system-oriented approach.
Rita is deeply devoted to guiding her clients toward a more connected, conscious, erotically alive, and authentic way of living, because this is your birthright!
All sessions are conducted with the highest level of privacy and confidentiality.
What is an Architect of Coherence?
Architect of Coherence is a term Rita uses to describe the essence of her work: supporting the alignment (coherence) of thoughts, feelings, energy, and actions — mind, heart, spirit, and body — so life can be experienced from a place of integrity and presence, expressing one’s authentic and deepest natural truth with freedom, beauty, and erotic aliveness.
It also honours her roots in architecture, now applied to the inner architecture and art of being human.
Explore…
A grounded & holistic approach supporting men in connecting and expanding their natural sexual expression, masculinity, overcoming sexual challenges, rebuilding confidence, and enriching aliveness.
This is a lush experience to assist you in moving beyond performance-based relating, disconnection, and conditioning, creating a deeper sense of presence & inner authority.
You and your partner will be guided on a sacred, sensual, and deeply connective journey of intimacy, conscious lovemaking, and pleasure.
Rita says that learning to bring Tantra into your relationship and lovemaking is like adding poetry and art to these practices… It brings soul, a deeper meaning, and transforms relating into a blend of celebration & devotion, a source of healing and consciousness expansion.
A nurturing & loving space for women to reconnect with their bodies, awaken their sensuality, and expand into the immense natural potential of feminine orgasmicness.
This work can also support the release of shame, disconnection, conditioning, and even chronic conditions such as UTIs, thrush, endometriosis, and more.
Rediscover your capacity for pleasure, awaken your creative power, and reconnect with the beauty, softness, and depth of your femininity.
Amazing sex goes way beyond technique… It’s about PRESENCE.
Offered Services
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This is a deeply intimate, full-body massage focused on presence, Eros, and reconnection with your sensual and emotional inner landscape.
Offered for individuals as a stand-alone service, and for couples within the Couples’ Journeys.Through guided touch and breath, this bodywork supports the safety to be present in your body, the expansion of pleasure, and the flow of orgasmic energy as a healing modality. The intention is to move out of the mind into an embodied state of feeling, presence, and aliveness.
Working with life-force energy (also known as Kundalini or Chi), this process can help release stored emotional patterns, trauma, and blockages held in the body, creating space for greater openness, confidence, and highly expanded pleasure states.
Sessions are conducted with loving presence, clear boundaries, and ongoing communication to ensure a safe and supportive experience.
This service is only offered in person.
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A holistic & somatic approach to intimacy and self, fostering lasting change through grounded practices and tailored guidance.
This service is offered for individuals and couples.
This work supports you in exploring challenges around sex, love, personal evolution, and relationships, releasing limiting beliefs, healing trauma, and cultivating greater self-awareness, confidence, personal sovereignty, and embodied authentic presence.
This therapeutic approach draws on tantric principles as a pathway to emotional and relational fulfilment. It supports a reorganisation of the connection between body and mind, transforming the way you relate to yourself, your sexuality, and others. By addressing the psychological layers often underlying sexual challenges and dysfunctions, this work goes beyond symptoms and into their root causes. Within this process, we explore childhood imprints, protective subconscious mechanisms developed over time, and the repetitive patterns that continue to shape your experience.
Through this work, you are invited to develop greater self-responsibility in how you relate to your life and your choices. This creates the foundation for meaningful change, supporting a more authentic, свободно grounded, and fulfilling way of living.
This service can be offered in person or online.
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This mentorship is a fully personalised and comprehensive offering, combining modalities such as holistic psychotherapy, tantric bodywork, breathwork, somatic practices, and energy-based work.
By working across the physical, emotional, psychological, and energetic layers, this process supports a holistic and coherent exploration of your challenges and aspirations. It goes beyond understanding, creating space for transformation through an embodied journey that gently moves through conditioning, mental patterns, and emotional disconnection.
Through this work, you are supported in cultivating:
• A grounded sense of calm and stability
• Greater connection to your body
• A clearer relationship with your inner knowing and personal authority
• Deeper intimacy, connection, and polarity in relationships
• Master your sexuality & sexual energy
• A natural and confident presenceYou are guided step by step with clarity and presence, as we explore your inner landscape and begin weaving new possibilities for your life, from a place of self-mastery, authenticity, and freedom.
Offered for individuals and couples.
This service can be offered in person or online, depending on each client’s needs.
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Through the ancient practices of Tantra, you and your partner are invited into a sacred and sensual journey of devotion, deep connection, transformation & expanded possibilities for pleasure...
These are not simply instructive sessions, but lush and sacred experiences designed to support couples in deepening connection, exploring intimacy, discovering new possibilities for pleasure, and cultivating the aliveness of love and devotion.
This work may include energetic practices, communication tools, pleasure-based techniques, tailored guidance & mentorship, and, above all, sharing the art of presence: learning to move out of the mind and into the body in complete attunement with your beloved.
During the sessions, Rita will address your own particular intentions and needs, offering tailored support for your relationship. You will learn the keys to synchronise your erotic language and re-establish your connection from a devotional, fully present, and conscious place, as well as igniting desire, expanding pleasure, and bringing a whole new meaning to your lovemaking & intimate connection.
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Let’s talk about your journey.
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Please visit the dedicated Melbourne page:
This is an insured practice.
Book a free 15-minute consultation to discuss your intentions for the session and answer any questions you may have.
This can be an insightful conversation to help you understand if this work aligns with your desires and needs. It offers a gentle first step in exploring whether this path feels right for your personal journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Sessions are offered in Melbourne and on the Gold Coast.
What People Are Saying…
“ It has taken my wife and I many years to explore and receive a tantric full-body massage (54 years old). I really had no idea what to expect other than what I read. There are so many different stories about tantra,
Some information was what I wanted it to be and some information seemed the opposite.
Rita wasn’t our first experience, unfortunately our first experience, we nearly gave up on the idea.
So my recommendation is truly heart felt and extremely honest.
There is only one way I can describe Rita.
Rita is so passionate about her profession, I felt like I had made an instant friend or felt like maybe I knew Rita from a previous life. Rita is warm, welcoming, full of knowledge and makes you feel extremely comfortable to open up and discuss any mental /sexual hurdles in life. My words can’t describe what I feel. I’m just a normal regular married meat eating bloke, not a freedom fighter or a rainbow chaser.
You can go to an art gallery and compare two paintings. One looks like the artist slapped a picture together and the other artist went to a lot of fine detail to make a picture an incredible piece of art.
That is Rita.
Thank you so much Rita for your guidance, time and understanding and your skills to break down what seemed impossible, an achievement.
So very grateful."
D. — Man, about a couple’s mentorship
“I recently had the opportunity to experience several alternative therapy sessions with Chrysalis Tantra, and I can honestly say it has been nothing short of life-changing. From the moment I stepped into the space, I felt a deep sense of safety, presence, and acceptance. The practitioner held a truly grounded and compassionate energy, creating an environment where I could open up and explore deeper layers of myself without judgment. Each session was thoughtfully guided, blending breathwork, energy awareness, and body-based practices in a way that felt intuitive and deeply healing. I was gently supported in reconnecting with my body, releasing old patterns, and rediscovering a sense of aliveness and emotional clarity I didn’t realize I had lost. What I appreciated most was the authentic, heart-centered approach. It’s about being seen, felt, and empowered to return to your own inner wisdom. Chrysalis Tantra offers a space where true transformation can unfold, and I’m incredibly grateful for the experience. I would wholeheartedly recommend these sessions to anyone seeking a deeper connection with themselves, looking to heal past wounds, or simply wanting to explore the richness of embodied awareness in many different ways."
Julian — Man
“Rita is one of those special people who can quickly, easily and deeply appreciate the needs of her clients. She has a rare wisdom seldom found. Her words and actions might ask you to challenge your 'old' view of yourself, but they are worthy of deep consideration. Talk frankly, listen carefully, and you will likely experience something truly transformative and enlightening, as I did. I can't recommend her highly enough. She's one of a kind"
C.K. — Man
“I recently had the pleasure of experiencing three tantric massage sessions with the truly special therapist Rita. Each session was a unique journey of self-discovery, as I explored different sensations and heightened awareness of my mind and body. What stood out to me was how each session brought forth a new understanding of myself, influenced by my menstrual cycle, which made each experience entirely distinct. Rita’s approach to touch was both gentle and profound, allowing me to delve into realms of pleasure…"
L.F. — Woman
“Our Tantra therapy session with Chrysalis Tantra was truly life-changing. Rita created a safe, respectful, and profoundly transformative space that allowed my partner and me to explore deeper layers of our intimacy, sexuality, and life energy. Through this experience, I felt past traumas and limiting beliefs dissolving from my body, opening the door to more acceptance, freedom, and connection. The session deepened our relationship in ways we never imagined—helping us see each other’s desires, personalities, and intimacy with newfound clarity and unconditional love. Rita’s presence was extraordinary; she skillfully balanced guiding us through challenging inner work while also inviting us to embrace joy, lightness, and pleasure. Her attention to detail, kindness, and deep wisdom made this journey incredibly special. We are beyond grateful for this experience and highly recommend Chrysalis Tantra to anyone seeking profound transformation, healing, and deeper connection. Thank you, Rita!"
Henry & Caro — Couple
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Private sessions offered on the Gold Coast and in Melbourne (limited availability)
We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the Yugambeh Language Region and all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander People of the Gold Coast. We recognise their continuing connection and contributions to country and culture. We pay respects to their Elders past, present and emerging.